FacebookCOOSherylSandberg给她英年早逝丈夫悼词：深情、坚强、感恩

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Facebook COO Sheryl Sa ndbe给她英年早逝丈夫的悼词：深情、坚强、感

恩400多个字，一篇文书的字数，文中没有任何难以明白的 SAT单词，但却是

那么感人。文中有生活的点点滴滴，但没有空洞的形容词。感人的文章就是那么平易近人。

I want to thank all of our friends and family for the outpouring of love over the pastfew days. It has been extraordinary - and each story you have shared will help keepDave alive in our hearts and memories.

I met Dave nearly 20 years ago when I first moved to LA. He became my best friend.He showed me the internet for the first time, planned fun outings, took me to templefor the Jewish holidays, introduced me to much cooler music than I had ever heard.Wehad11trulyjoyfulyearsofthedeepestlove,happiestmarriage,andtruestpartner shipthatIcouldimagine...Hegavemetheexperienceofbeingdeeplyunderstood, truly supported and completely and utterly loved —nd I will carry thatwith me always. Most importantly, he gave me the two most amazing children in theworld.

Dave was my rock. When I got upset, he stayed calm. When I was worried, he said itwould be ok. When I wasn 't sure what to do, he figured it out.He was

completelydedicated to his children in every way-and their strength these past few days is thebest sign I could have that Dave is still here with us in spirit.

Dave and I did not get nearly enough time together. But as heartbroken as I am today,I am equally grateful. Even in these last few days of completely unexpected hell -hedarkest and saddest mome nts of my life-Ik now how lucky I have bee n. If the day Iwalked down that aisle with Dave someone had told me that this would happe n -hathe would be take n from us all in just 11 years-Iwould still have walked down thataisle. Because 11 years of being Dave Goldberg 's wife, and 10 yea

being a parentwith him is perhaps more luck and more happiness than I could have ever imagined. Iam grateful for every minute we had.

As we put the love of my life to rest today, we buried only his body. His spirit, hissoul, his amazing ability to give is still with us. It lives on in the stories people aresharingofhowhetouchedtheirlives,inthelovethatisvisibleintheeyesofourfamily and

frien ds, in the spirit and resilie nee of our childre n. Things will n ever be thesame—ut the world is better for the years my beloved husband lived.

感谢我所有的家人及好友过去这几天源源不断的关爱。你们分享的每一个故事都让戴夫永远活在我们的心中和回忆里，这对我来说都意义非凡。

差不多 20 年前，我刚搬到洛杉矶就与戴夫相遇，他成为了我最好的朋友。

　他第一次向我展示了互联网，计划有趣的旅行，带我去寺庙感受犹太式的节假日，给我听一些我过去从未接触过的酷炫的音乐。

我们 11 年的幸福婚姻生活被深深的爱和快乐所包围着，这也是我能想象的最真挚的一段人生伴侣的关系。他给予了我充分的理解，百分百完整的爱与支持，这些我都将永远珍藏。最重要的是，他给了我世界上最棒的 2 个孩子。

戴夫是我的依靠。当我沮丧不安时，他会沉着冷静；当我担心害怕时，他会说一切都会好起来的；当我不确定该怎么做时，他总会有办法。他几乎奉献了所有去关爱孩子的全方位成长，所以，孩子们在过去这几天所表现出的坚强，也是我认为戴夫始终和我们在一起。

我和戴夫几乎没什么时间在一起。然而，过去这几天简直就是意料外的地狱，是我生命中最黑暗与伤心的时刻，我悲痛欲绝却仍觉得感激与幸运。如果我和戴夫决定在一起的某一天，有人告诉我 11 年后他将永远离开我，我还是不后悔和他一起。作为戴夫妻子的这 11 年，还有我们为人父母的这 10 年，超乎我想象的幸运与美好，我珍惜和他在一起的每一分每一秒。

今天，虽然我一生挚爱的身体将长眠安息；但是，他的精神、灵魂和傲人的能力始终与我们同在，人们会讲述与分享戴夫如何影响他们的生命，我的家人和好友眼中充满了那种无形的爱，还有我们的孩子所展现的乐观豁达。如今一切都不同了，但世界似乎更美好了，只因为我亲爱的丈夫活过。